{"id":282,"date":"2021-02-03T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-03T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"},"modified":"2022-06-06T12:34:32","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T12:34:32","slug":"esitimiz-kadin","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"","title":{"rendered":"E\u015e\u0130T\u0130M\u0130Z: KADIN"},"content":{"rendered":"Y\u00fcksel YOKOLMA’ n\u0131n kaleminden,    “Ne garip!  En iyi davrand\u0131klar\u0131mbug\u00fcn en \u00e7ok incitenler beni,”   diyordu Sappho,  milattan \u00f6nce 630-612 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda, bug\u00fcnk\u00fc ad\u0131 ile Midilli Adas\u0131’nda do\u011fan ve Roma D\u00f6nemi’nde \u0130stanbul’daki VIII. Papa Gregory’nin emri ile 1073 tarihinde \u015fiirlerinin \u00e7o\u011fu  yak\u0131lan kad\u0131n \u015fair.  Bug\u00fcn de hala en iyi davrand\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011fil midir kad\u0131n\u0131 inciten? … O g\u00fcnden beri hi\u00e7bir \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fmedi mi kad\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda? …   \u0130nsan\u0131n tarihsel ve toplumsal ya\u015fam s\u00fcrecindeki yeri, dahil oldu\u011fu \u00fcretim ili\u015fkileri i\u00e7indeki konumu ile belirlenir. Erkek i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu kadar, kad\u0131n i\u00e7in de durum b\u00f6yledir. Fakat tarihin ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yere gitti\u011fimizde, kad\u0131n\u0131n talihinin talihsizliklerle ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlat\u0131l\u0131r bize. Buna inanmam\u0131z istenir. E rke\u011fin yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 tarihe g\u00f6re b\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerin d\u00fcnyaya yay\u0131lmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7an kad\u0131n, o kutuyu a\u00e7an Pandora’d\u0131r. Yani erke\u011fin yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 tarihe g\u00f6re kad\u0131n, ba\u015f\u0131ndan beri lanetlenmi\u015ftir!!! G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de bu “m\u00fcstesna” tarih yaz\u0131m\u0131, de\u011ferinden pek bir \u015fey kaybetmemi\u015ftir asl\u0131nda. Toplumsal ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en temel dire\u011fi olan kad\u0131n, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dolayl\u0131 veya dolays\u0131z bir bi\u00e7imde “\u015feytani” niteliklere sahip olarak tarif edilir. Okudu\u011fumuz kitaplardaki sat\u0131r aralar\u0131nda da, izledi\u011fimiz televizyon dizilerine dair sahnelerde de b\u00f6yle kurguland\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oluruz ana omurgan\u0131n. Ya\u015fam\u0131n ve insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve yap\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcc\u00fc olan kad\u0131n, y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ve u\u011fursuz bir yarat\u0131k gibi g\u00f6sterilir. Oysa biz biliriz ki ya\u015fam\u0131n kendisi kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Do\u011furan, \u00fcreten, yeti\u015ftiren, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren, s\u00fcrd\u00fcren kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Dahas\u0131 sevginin, sayg\u0131n\u0131n, bir arada ya\u015faman\u0131n, bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n ve dostlu\u011fun g\u00fcvencesidir de ayn\u0131 zamanda kad\u0131n. Kad\u0131n\u0131n hak etti\u011fi sayg\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc tarih kesitlerinin oldu\u011fu y\u00f6n\u00fcnde rivayetler de vard\u0131r elbette. Antik M\u0131s\u0131r ve Hitit uygarl\u0131klar\u0131 da s\u00f6z konusu rivayetlere dahildir. Fakat bu d\u00f6nemlerde de kad\u0131n\u0131n toplumdaki rol\u00fc, erke\u011fin egemen konumu ile ayn\u0131 seviyede de\u011fildir. Modern toplumlar, kad\u0131n ve erkek e\u015fitli\u011fine dayand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 iddia etseler de ger\u00e7ek b\u00f6yle de\u011fildir ne yaz\u0131k ki. Demokratik olarak bildi\u011fimiz toplumlarda bile kad\u0131n bedeni bir s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fc metas\u0131 olarak muamele g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Bizimki gibi feodal ba\u011flar\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu geli\u015fmemi\u015f kapitalist \u00fclkelerde ise kad\u0131n kimli\u011fi \u00fczerinde d\u0131\u015flay\u0131c\u0131 ve \u00f6tekile\u015ftirici muamelelerin ard\u0131 arkas\u0131 gelmez. Kafas\u0131 bozulan erke\u011fin ilk s\u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, d\u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve hatta \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, en yak\u0131n\u0131ndaki kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Kad\u0131n ancak erkek i\u00e7in “i\u015fe yarad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar” de\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u0130tiraz\u0131 asla makbul de\u011fildir erke\u011fin nazar\u0131nda. Tarihsel arka plan ve ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcre\u00e7 ne olursa olsun, kad\u0131n, erke\u011fin e\u015fitidir. Onu tan\u0131t\u0131rken “filancan\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131” gibi bir tan\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 yoktur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n, tek ba\u015f\u0131na sayg\u0131y\u0131 fazlas\u0131yla hak eden, erkekten ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r. \u00dcstelik do\u011fay\u0131 tahrip ederek ve sava\u015flara yol a\u00e7arak d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ya\u015fanmaz hale getiren erkeksi k\u00fclliyat\u0131n da panzehiridir kad\u0131n. Hem tek ba\u015f\u0131nayken hem de ailenin bir \u00fcyesiyken; hem sokakta hem de dahil oldu\u011fu toplumsal \u00fcretim s\u00fcrecinde hak etti\u011fi e\u015fitli\u011fe kavu\u015ftu\u011funda ve hak etti\u011fi sayg\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde hem \u00fclkemiz hem de d\u00fcnya \u00e7ok daha ya\u015fanabilir bir yere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecektir. Bunu sa\u011flamadan d\u00fcnyay\u0131 daha ya\u015fanabilir k\u0131lman\u0131n imkan\u0131 yoktur… ","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":282,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_links_to":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin","_links_to_target":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"collection":[{"href":"urlver"}],"about":[{"href":""}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"version-history":[{"count":1041,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":282,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/yazilar\/dost-kalemler\/esitimiz-kadin"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindostumarkalar.org\/img\/blog\/ekran-resmi-2021-02-03-01.05.57.png"}],"curies":[{"name":".Net","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}